Special Angels: Lessons They Don't Teach In School

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Special Angels: Lessons They Don't Teach In School

As the manager of a home for physically and intellectually challenged children, I have a variety of jobs. One special job is organising a funeral when one of our angels passes on. My goal is to make the occasion joyous and comforting for the families of the children. Our carers also develop strong bonds with these children, and the service is a release of emotion for them as well. Over the years, I have worked with many excellent funeral directors and developed a range of options that make each service unique and memorable. In recent times, friends have started to ask me for advice when they find themselves in the difficult situation of organising a funeral. I have created this blog as I realise that textbooks and school lessons really don't prepare you for this important task. I wish you well.

Top Considerations When Choosing a Monument Headstone

Death is a painful reality that affects everyone directly or indirectly. In fact, it was — and still is — a taboo to speak about death in some cultures. However, times have changed today, and people can openly talk and discuss death. Therefore, it is not strange for a loved one to arrange for their funeral even before they breathe their last. One area that is a crucial part of funeral arrangements is the choice of a memorial headstone. The permanent marker is meant to commemorate the life of a loved one after passing on. Therefore, it is crucial to choose a tombstone that honours a deceased person. This article highlights factors to consider when choosing a memorial headstone.

Ease of Maintenance 

While most people store a loved one's memories in the form of pictures and videos, nothing beats the closeness you feel with a visit to their graveyard. It is mainly the case during the first few months of mourning. However, would you want to visit a cemetery with an unkempt headstone? Nobody would, and that is why you must choose an easy-to-maintain headstone. For instance, a granite headstone performs better than marble in the maintenance department because it is impervious to all weather conditions. Notably, you do not have to worry about erosion or decomposition in moist weather if a headstone skips a few weeks of maintenance.

Ease of Customisation 

How do you want to customise a memorial headstone? Do you want it etched, carved or engraved? Besides, what type of finish are you interested in — polished, honed or pitched? Headstone customisation techniques offer a wide range of choices and perform differently for different natural headstones. Therefore, you should choose a tombstone that works well with any of the above customisation techniques. It helps to cut down on the amount of time you spend looking for the ideal headstone crafter. The less time you spend customising a memorial headstone, the more time you will have attending to other equally essential funeral arrangements.

Funeral Home Rules 

Different cemeteries have their own rules and regulations regarding the type of headstone choice. While some cemeteries accept large memorial headstones, others limit the width and height you can install on a loved one's graveyard. The last thing you want is putting up a headstone only to be informed that you need to remove it since it violates cemetery rules. Therefore, before you go shopping for a tombstone, ensure you understand the cemetery rules so that you do not waste time and resources.