Special Angels: Lessons They Don't Teach In School

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Special Angels: Lessons They Don't Teach In School

As the manager of a home for physically and intellectually challenged children, I have a variety of jobs. One special job is organising a funeral when one of our angels passes on. My goal is to make the occasion joyous and comforting for the families of the children. Our carers also develop strong bonds with these children, and the service is a release of emotion for them as well. Over the years, I have worked with many excellent funeral directors and developed a range of options that make each service unique and memorable. In recent times, friends have started to ask me for advice when they find themselves in the difficult situation of organising a funeral. I have created this blog as I realise that textbooks and school lessons really don't prepare you for this important task. I wish you well.

Contacting a Funeral Home Is Hard — Here's How to Make It a Little Easier

Funeral directors are there to take a lot of the work out of arranging a service for someone who has passed away, which is incredibly important to grieving family members. The sheer number of tasks involved in sorting out a funeral makes it just too much for most people in a state of mourning, but there is one thing that you should do as soon as possible: get in contact with a funeral home.

Unsurprisingly, however, just that can be a difficult task. If you're in the position of having to initiate working with a funeral home, here are some tips to make it a little bit more bearable.

Write down some notes

During times of great stress, it's easy to forget important things and be unable to answer questions. Although a good funeral director will sensitively guide you through the conversation, it's helpful to have an idea of whatever you'd like to say, and any questions you may have.

Spend a bit of time writing down some notes to help you remember. This also guides your thoughts, making it more likely you'll think of all the things you need to say.

Ask someone to be with you

There's no need to do it alone and, in fact, it's best for most people to have some company when they contact a funeral home. Choose someone you trust and who has a cool head in stressful moments. It's best to avoid anyone you feel would try and take control but equally as important to pick someone who will speak up when you need them to.

Just having someone with you is often enough to give you a lot of strength during such a difficult time.

Decide which way is easiest

When you're about to contact a funeral director, you have two choices. You can either visit their offices in person or give them a call on the phone. Although you'll most likely need to visit eventually, some people find the initial contact easier by phone.

Think about what's best for you and whether you find face-to-face or telephone communication easier.

Choose the right time

Although you should try not to delay it too much, you should still pick the best moment you can, so don't rush to call straight away.

Get yourself ready by spending some time with the person who's accompanying you and making sure all your notes are in order. When you're feeling strong enough, pick up the phone or head to the funeral home like Lethborg Funeral Services, but don't do it until you're really ready.